December 2010
Anonymous asked: Me n my girls hv been havin a debate as to whether or not we should be more open in seekin someone special in terms of race mainly but other factors also ie. swag must be on point. so would u ever date or have u ever dated out of your race?
Dec 1st
Anonymous asked: what is ur remedy to mend a broken heart?
Dec 1st
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November 2010
Nov 30th
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theblakkplague-deactivated20101 asked: Your conversation with little people piece is beyond phenomenal. Love the honesty in your pen.

What's your definition of beauty?
Nov 30th
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Conversations with Little People
I am trying to teach my 11 year old sister how to grow her body out of being ungainly. She ignores her father’s phone calls now. She stares at the phone,  reposition of eyes, pretends that he is speaking hieroglyph language and tells our other sister to tell him that she is just living. Rafayah, our youngest sister says “Daddy, she says she’s fine”. My sister...
Nov 30th
theblakkplague-deactivated20101 asked: How does one go about mending a broken heart?
Nov 30th
“It is necessary to remember, as we think critically about domination, that we...”
– Bell Hooks, “Feminism A Transformational Politic.” Talking Back: Thinking Feminist, Thinking Black. (via jorgebrito)
Nov 30th
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Nov 30th
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Anonymous asked: y are u so afraid to be loved?
Nov 30th
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There is a 20% chance that you are, indeed, the...
Nov 30th
Anonymous asked: R u as truthful wid people as u r in ur blog. like answering Q, expressin urself?
Nov 30th
theblakkplague-deactivated20101 asked: What are you still holding on to?
Nov 30th
Anonymous asked: “What was her name,
the one by the door? Expostulations of orange juice.
Purple clouds. Twice I jumped from an airplane
to forget a beautiful woman who was sleeping
with some guy instead of me who made guitars
from scratch. Handprints on an aquarium,
tissue paper. Irregular envelopes. To begin,
each player selected a game piece. She was...
Nov 30th
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Nov 29th
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Anonymous asked: Where does the wonder live, woman?
Nov 29th
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Nov 29th
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Anonymous asked: What are you most afraid of?
Nov 29th
Anonymous asked: *Same person. lol

If you were a tree, what type of tree would you be?
Nov 29th
“When you start affecting lives, you have more of a responsibility. You’re...”
– Nicki MInaj
Nov 29th
motorboatmyballs asked: iloveyou<3
Nov 29th
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Freewrite (11/28/10)
To the Next Lover Who Will Call me Heartless You have to understand: there is nothing standardized about being a left wing driver. When a woman asks you to play seamstress with her lungs there is no room for almost breathing. there is only exhale and combustion. I am embellishing the metal of this for you so I can hold you without having to first talk about the ways my heart has been...
Nov 29th
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Nov 29th
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Oh, shit.
My sister wants to have a Bat Mitzvah. This … will be interesting. I didn’t have one because I didn’t give a fuck but apprarently she gives a significant amount of fuck and wants us to respect the fuck she’s giving and my mom is not going to say no I mean like DUH so I guess she’s getting a Bat Mitzvah. Secretly - I think she’s doing it just to get a party....
Nov 29th
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She is so beautiful that her arms are finding ways...
Nov 29th
Anonymous asked: do you speak Hebrew fluently?
Nov 28th
Also, to black women who choose the 'natural' hair...
Nov 28th
Telling me that I'm not like 'other black girls'...
Nov 28th
Nov 28th
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For the most part
sophisticatedinsanity: People are disappointments. Of course there are exceptions… But not many. Not enough. I would like to believe in a world where everyone plays the role you need them to fit in your life but let’s be real. We are nothing but a cyclone people floating from one disaster to the next.
Nov 28th
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Anonymous asked: what kind of girl do you like?
Nov 28th
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Anonymous asked: i get everybody has their own opions but this doesn't make sense to me.like by them enforcin this people r nw gna turn round n say they aint gay no more. but for nw everyobdys pretty ok. Its the people who live in countries where execution is already in place that have somethin to REALLY WORRY about. ur mum has a point for nw ur kwl but if NYC decide to enforce this policy ur gna have a RALLY...
Nov 28th
I'm not having a poem war with you.
Hang it up - flatscreen. 
Nov 27th
Nov 27th
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Anonymous asked: totally hope ur havin a great day. came on here n i see ur in the middle of a HEATED debate. you shuldnt apologise to anyone bout hw u wnt to live ur life. if they accept it good if they dnt..NEXT...ow n i got the book white oleanders that u recommended gona b readin it today thanks!.
Nov 27th
Anonymous asked: im all for being happy n livin ur life hw the hell you wnt to. thats not wat i was disputin about or tryin to undermine hw u live ur life. buh i get ur point that this has cost u alot n to u this is definatly nt sumtin that u jus decided to bring upon urself. but im not goin to accept that this ws sumthin that u had no control of. that bein a lesbian was pre destined for u.
Nov 27th
artistofculture asked: So, I'm here doing a project, logged into tumblr, and saw your reply on

"dnt get it twisted i aint even tryin to be offensive or tell u that how ur livin ur life is wrong. im just sayin what i know. but if u dated a guy den it kind of seems that u made that conscious decision to not anymore"

your reply is the answer I always was felt but never found the...
Nov 27th
Anonymous asked: yeah but the feeling that you felt for that particular man was proberly short lived because u told urself dis aint u. theres alot of things that people feel and experience- things that rotate in our minds for what seems like forever. that does mean that we were born to think, feel or be like that. that feeling became aparant to us unconsciously or consciously one day and from then on we either...
Nov 27th
Anonymous asked: dnt get it twisted i aint even tryin to be offensive or tell u that how ur livin ur life is wrong. im just sayin what i know. but if u dated a guy den it kind of seems that u made that conscious decision to not anymore
Nov 27th
Anonymous asked: so all ur life or at least as u can remeber u hv always had feelins for girl uve neva felt that way for a boy or anything like that?? but why would God do that (presumberly ur religious)? his not in favour of homosexuality. That is what the bible says
Nov 27th
Anonymous asked: so i guess u believe that you were born gay...interestin...!
Nov 27th
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Nov 27th
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Steps of Really Letting You Go This Time:
1). Not calling you when 3:51 A.M. is a drunk spill of reasons why any argument with you would be much better than this silence.
Nov 27th
ohkaii asked: guhl,
you is LUSCIOUS
Nov 27th
...I want people to stop asking that I go natural.
I want people to stop asking that I go natural. I want people to stop criticizing my decision NOT to go natural. Most of my friends are natural. They are beautiful. I support them. HOWEVER, though it is most definitely an option for me (as it is for any black woman), I am not making the decision to go natural BECAUSE I have options, and because it, simply, is not an option I lean towards.  ...
Nov 27th
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Kim ain't fuckin with Nicki. Kim tried to hit...
Nov 27th
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27648.) I honestly believe that the way my...
Nov 26th